Modern Virtue with Dr. Selda Koydemir

Modern Virtue with Dr. Selda Koydemir

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How We Bear the Unbearable

How We Bear the Unbearable

and find our invincible Summer

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How We Bear the Unbearable
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Last week, I came across a Hemingway quote that struck me like a truth I hadn’t put into words before:

“You’re so brave and quiet I forget you are suffering.”

It was how I’ve been feeling for the past eighteen months.

I have been so brave and quiet that people around me—those far away but still connected and even those close by—seem to forget that I’m in pain.

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