I have been a psychotherapist for almost 40 years, as well as an academic in the field. This essay is superb, and deserves to be widely read. I am a frequent speaker on what I tend to call “the crisis in psychotherapy.” This essay gets to the heart of most of my concerns. Including that most of the suffering I encounter these days has deep roots in social and economic practices, and cultural assumptions. (See my book Caring for Souls in a Neoliberal Age.) I would enjoy a conversation with this author, if an opportunity ever comes our way. Thank you so much for your time and work on this essay!
I’m about to go into a therapy session, and I’m forgetting at the moment how to send a direct message through Substack. Shall I send an email using the email address on your website? I’d love to connect and share information!
Thank you for the detailed post, I appreciate what you say. I have found that I can sometimes get some useful feedback from AI between my therapy sessions and I know that some of my coaching clients will use it in a similar way (and I don't see it as a threat to my profession).
As an extra tool, I believe it is useful. Also, I keep training Chat GPT to not sugarcoat it and will often ask it to reconsider its answer, to see if it will double down or revise the answer. But always, I look at the answers and study them to see how much bullshit there is there, before considering the advice.
Oh I loved this. I hope more people read it. I know a few people who’ve started using AI as a therapist and it really is interesting (and a bit disturbing!) to see its effects anecdotally.
hahahah yes, I understood what you tried to explain but at the same time I found it kind of funny and so good that went deep and explained that to us as well, super important!
This was such a terrific explanation and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your naming what actual psychotherapy is. And how the robots aren’t it. 😬
I was abused exploited and tormented by my Human psychotherapist for 3 1/2 years and every therapist I have gone to since won’t shut the fuck up about themselves and their own problems so I’m gonna stick with AI thanks
Sorry to hear about your experience. Not sure if you have read the whole post but I wrote that some psychotherapists do more harms than good. And what you shared is exactly what I meant. Meaningful or effective psychotherapy is different than what not only a machine does but also many real life therapists do. My wish is to help people and beginner therapists understand that. You were clearly unfortunately. If a therapist abused you, then they should be punished and should not practice at all.
I have been a psychotherapist for almost 40 years, as well as an academic in the field. This essay is superb, and deserves to be widely read. I am a frequent speaker on what I tend to call “the crisis in psychotherapy.” This essay gets to the heart of most of my concerns. Including that most of the suffering I encounter these days has deep roots in social and economic practices, and cultural assumptions. (See my book Caring for Souls in a Neoliberal Age.) I would enjoy a conversation with this author, if an opportunity ever comes our way. Thank you so much for your time and work on this essay!
Hi Bruce, thanks for your comment. It would be great to connect!
I’m about to go into a therapy session, and I’m forgetting at the moment how to send a direct message through Substack. Shall I send an email using the email address on your website? I’d love to connect and share information!
Sure.
Thank you for the detailed post, I appreciate what you say. I have found that I can sometimes get some useful feedback from AI between my therapy sessions and I know that some of my coaching clients will use it in a similar way (and I don't see it as a threat to my profession).
As an extra tool, I believe it is useful. Also, I keep training Chat GPT to not sugarcoat it and will often ask it to reconsider its answer, to see if it will double down or revise the answer. But always, I look at the answers and study them to see how much bullshit there is there, before considering the advice.
Oh I loved this. I hope more people read it. I know a few people who’ve started using AI as a therapist and it really is interesting (and a bit disturbing!) to see its effects anecdotally.
Thank you, Samaiya!
Love the thoughtfulness- such an important message. Thanks Selda.
Beautifully put
Thanks, Amanda, much appreciated!
I like it because you do the work, with honesty and humility and that " I hate you " to AI made me laugh :)
Thanks, Marieb! Yes, I did say that I hated it, because, well, that's something some clients might say in a session :)
hahahah yes, I understood what you tried to explain but at the same time I found it kind of funny and so good that went deep and explained that to us as well, super important!
Even asking that is idiotic…
This was such a terrific explanation and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your naming what actual psychotherapy is. And how the robots aren’t it. 😬
I was abused exploited and tormented by my Human psychotherapist for 3 1/2 years and every therapist I have gone to since won’t shut the fuck up about themselves and their own problems so I’m gonna stick with AI thanks
Sorry to hear about your experience. Not sure if you have read the whole post but I wrote that some psychotherapists do more harms than good. And what you shared is exactly what I meant. Meaningful or effective psychotherapy is different than what not only a machine does but also many real life therapists do. My wish is to help people and beginner therapists understand that. You were clearly unfortunately. If a therapist abused you, then they should be punished and should not practice at all.